Thanksgiving has a predictable rhythm every year. We gather around long tables. We list the blessings. We talk about family, food, and favor. That's all good, but there is another side of gratitude we rarely mention. A quieter side. A deeper side. A side that grows you up. This year, I'm thanking God for what I don't have. There's a strange kind of healing that comes when you stop forcing yourself to be grateful in the same old way. Honestly, a lot of us walked through a seas